All of you in this room are children. Even I’m a child –
because I have parents. I don’t live in their home anymore, but I still
recognize that I am their child and they are my parents.
But many years ago, I did live in their house. I did eat
their food. They did buy me clothes. They paid for my education and my medical
care and whatever else I needed.
When I think about it, my parents did a lot for me. They
weren’t perfect of course, but God used them to provide for me.
And I would assume that you all have similar circumstances {I am teaching this to 10-12 years-olds…}
Your parents aren’t perfect, but they do provide for you. They do make sure
that your basic needs are met.
So, I’ve mentioned perfect parents and how none of us have
them. No parent is perfect. But did you ever think about being a perfect child?
Are you a perfect child? If you were, what would that look
like? How would you treat your parents? How would you interact with your siblings?
What would you spend your time doing at home?
The reality is that none of you is a perfect child. You have
your flaws and your faults. You have your sins.
But did you know that there has been one perfect child in
the entire history of humankind? And that child was Jesus Christ. The Bible
tells us that he “knew no sin.”
And this is because Jesus’ father was God. So, as God, Jesus
was sinless.
And yet, his mother was Mary. And because of that, Jesus was
a human who was quite possibly capable of sin.
But he never sinned. He was the perfect child. And if you
want to be getting close at all to being that kind of child, you are going to
need to be more and more like him. You need to be increasing in your
Christlikeness – in your being more and more like Jesus Christ – “Christ-like”.
And so, I want us to look at a story from the life of Jesus
Christ in the gospel of Luke in which we see How to be a Perfect (or “Christlike”) Child. Turn to Luke 2. And
we’ll be studying verses 40-52 in order to see How to be a Christlike Child.
Let’s first read Luke 2:40-52 and then we’ll study this in
detail.
{Read Luke 2:40-52…}
v40 Dependence Upon God for Growth
To begin with, a child who is like Christ is dependent upon God for growth in his or
her life like Jesus was in verse 40.
KJV Luke 2:40 And
the child {grew/continued to grow}, and {waxed/become/became} {strong
in spirit/strong}, {filled with/increasing in} wisdom: and the {grace/favor}
of God was upon him.
So, this is speaking here of the time between when Jesus was
a baby and when he was twelve years old. And all the Bible tells us about this
time in Jesus’ life is that he grew. So, a child who wants to be more like
Jesus also needs to grow.
You need to grow naturally. This includes both physical
growth and mental growth. Your body needs to grow and your mind needs to grow.
In terms of your body growing the way God wants it to, you
need to eat right. That means something other than potato chips and candy every
once in a while! So, don’t give your parents a hard time when they serve you
some brussels sprouts or broccoli or whatever else you find to be disgusting!
It’s for your good in order to help your body grow the way God intends for it.
Also, exercise is important to help your body grow. I hope
we don’t have anyone here who just sits around all day! You need to get active
and run around. This will help your body grow. So, don’t think that gym class
or recess or sports are all worthless. No – they’re part of God growing you
physically – growing your body.
And so, you need to grow physically like Jesus did. You also
need to grow mentally. Jesus grew in wisdom.
So, if you want to be like Jesus as a child you need to
exercise your mind. School work and homework are not bad things. They will help
you grow mentally.
And on the flip side, what are some things that will not help you grow mentally? How about
plopping yourself in front of the TV or your computer or your phone and mindlessly entertaining yourself for
hours? Playing the right kind of games can exercise your mind – but be careful
that you aren’t just letting your mind get lazy with all of the games you play.
This would not help you grow in wisdom like Jesus did.
And I will add that Jesus wasn’t simply smart. That’s not what it means that he grew in wisdom. Instead,
he could take his knowledge and apply it to real life situations. For example,
you might know that Jesus is God and that he was perfect and that he died for
your sins – but unless you apply that knowledge and actually trust him to save
you from your sins, it won’t do any good. You need to take your knowledge –
that Jesus is God and sinless and that he loves you and died for you – and you
need to do something about that –
believe in him.
So, you want to be like Jesus in his physical and mental
growth. But as you do these things, you really do need God to be helping you –
like he helped Jesus. “The grace of God was upon him.”
God’s grace is when he helps you. When he gives you the
things that you need. You are not going to be like Christ without God’s help.
And if you want God’s help, the Bible tells you to humble
yourself before God. Don’t be proud. Don’t think that you’re doing just fine
and that you don’t need God’s help. If you think you don’t need God’s help –
guess what! He’s not going to give it to you. He will resist you and make life
hard for you. In fact, maybe that’s the problem in the lives of some of you.
Maybe God is making life hard for you because you don’t think you need him. You
do need him! We all do.
And so, if you want to be a Christlike child, you need God’s help to grow physically and
mentally.
v41 Family Religion
And another really important part of being a Christlike
child is your family’s involvement in
true biblical religion.
41 ¶ Now {his/Jesus’}
parents went to Jerusalem every year {at/for} the feast of the passover.
Now, the Passover was a religious event that God’s people in
the Old Testament would celebrate every year. It was a time when they would
remember that God saved them out of slavery. God wanted his people to remember
and celebrate that at least every year.
And what we see in verse 41 is that Jesus’ parents – Mary
and Joseph – would do what God wanted them to do by going to the Passover
celebration in Jerusalem – their capital city.
And this is kind of out of your control in some ways. You as
a child are not going to be able to make your parents follow God. You can’t
make your parents get involved in biblical religious things like going to
church and reading the Bible and praying.
But you can encourage them to do this. Some of your parents
are here today at church and some are not. If your parents aren’t here, maybe
you can invite them to come! You can ask them to read the Bible to you tonight
and every night. You can ask your parents to pray before you eat your meals or
before you go to bed.
And maybe what your parents need to see is you doing these things – you reading your Bible – you praying – you continuing to come to church.
And we as a church pray that you would grow to become more
like Jesus Christ as your family gets
involved in true biblical religion.
v42 Personal Religion
But it’s not enough that your family is involved in true biblical religion. You yourself need to be
personally involved. Because this is what we see Jesus doing in verse 42.
42 {And when/When} he
{was twelve years old/became twelve}, they went {up to Jerusalem/up
there/up} {after the custom of the feast/according to the custom of the
Feast/according to custom}.
Again, it’s Jesus’s whole family going to Jerusalem for this
biblical religious celebration. But he’s with them. He is personally
participating in this celebration and time of worship.
And we might have some here today whose family comes to
church – but you really have no interest. You’re here because your parents are
here and therefore you must be here!
But if you had a choice, where would you be? What would you
be doing?
Well, Jesus is God. He could have been doing whatever he
wanted. And what did he want to do? He wanted to meet with God’s people and
obey God’s commandments for them and worship the Lord his Father.
And we’re going to see in a little while that Jesus was a
willing participant in this. There’s a way to come to church and be with God’s
people but your heart is not interested at all in being there. Your body is
there but your heart is somewhere else. That’s not what was going on with
Jesus. He was all there! And you and I should be, too.
So, you want to be a Christlike child? Take biblical religion seriously on a personal level.
v43-45 Miscommunication/Priorities/Inconvenience
Now, you might get the wrong impression about what life is
like for a Christlike child. If you think that being a child who is dependent
on God for your growth and whose family is involved in biblical religion and
you yourself are also involved – well then, everything is going to be perfect.
That’s simply not the case. In fact, we’re going to see in
Jesus’ life that even for a “perfect” or Christlike child:
- There is still a possibility for
miscommunication with your parents
- Sometimes your spiritual priorities might be
different from those of your parents
- You might end up causing some level of
inconvenience for your parents
We see all of these things in Jesus’ life in verses 43-45.
43 {And when they had
fulfilled the days/After spending the full number of days/But when the feast
was over}, {as they/while his parents} {returned/were
returning/were returning home}, the {child/boy} Jesus {tarried/stayed}
behind in Jerusalem; {and Joseph and his mother/But his parents/His
parents/but they} {knew not of it/were unaware of it/did not know it}.
44 {But they, supposing
him to have been/but because they assumed that he was/Thinking he was} in {the
company/the caravan/their group of travelers/their company}, {went a day’s
journey/they traveled on for a day};
{and/then} they {sought/began
looking for} him among their {kinsfolk/relatives}
and {acquaintance/acquaintances/friends}.
45 And when they {found
him not/did not find him}, they {turned back again/returned/went back}
to Jerusalem, {seeking/looking for/to look for} him.
So, we see from Jesus’ life that for a Christlike child,
there is still a possibility for miscommunication with your parents. Somehow
Jesus and his mother and Joseph had not agreed on a time and place to meet and
then leave Jerusalem.
And you – even if you are striving to be a Christlike child
– you might say something that your parents don’t quite understand, or they’ll
say something that you don’t hear or you forget. Maybe your parents will tell
you something that you don’t understand.
That’s OK in a way. It looks like this is what happened with
Jesus. His parents thought he was with them and so they left town without him.
And at times, this disconnect might be because sometimes
your spiritual priorities might be different from those of your parents.
Especially if your parents are not themselves also Christlike – trusting Christ
and following him – but you are following Jesus – then what you think is
important spiritually will be different from what they think is important.
And because of all of this, if you are striving to be a
Christlike child, you might end up causing some level of inconvenience for your
parents. You might make their life a little difficult if you are following Christ
and they are not. And the opposite is true, too. If your parents are the ones
who are trying to be like Christ, and you aren’t, then you’ll still probably
tend to make their life difficult.
And quite honestly, even when parents and child are both pursuing
the Lord there’s still a possibility for life being a bit difficult.
And that’s OK. Just remember that if you are growing to be a
child who is like Jesus you might still
experience miscommunication with your parents, you might have different
priorities than they do, and you might cause them some inconveniences.
v46 Relationship to Spiritual Things/Leaders
Well, another mark of your being like Christ as a child will
be your relationship to and interactions
with spiritual things and spiritual leaders in your life. Let’s see how
Jesus handled these things in verse 46.
46 {And it came to pass,
that after/Then, after/After} three days they found him in the {temple/temple
courts}, sitting {in the midst of/among} the {doctors/teachers},
{both hearing/both listening to/listening to} them, and asking them
questions.
This would be like if your parents came and found you
talking with Pastor Kindstedt and me and Mr. Jeremy – and we weren’t just
talking about the weather or about your summer vacation or some other thing
like that – but we were actually speaking of spiritual and biblical things.
Jesus was comfortable at the age of twelve speaking to
spiritual men about spiritual things. Are you?
This is one area that I desire for my own kids – that they
would not be afraid of speaking to spiritual leaders and people – even when
they’re adults. I think it’s very important that kids learn to speak to adults.
Some of you tend to shy away from speaking to grown-ups in
church. Don’t do that. Reach out to us. We’d like to talk with you.
And when you talk with us, we’d like to speak about the
Bible. Come with questions. If you have questions that come up throughout the
week, write them down and bring them to us on Sunday or Wednesday night and
let’s talk about them from the Bible.
And if you’re going to be growing in being like Jesus – and
being able to give answers to spiritual people – you’ll need to be reading the
Bible yourself.
So, as you desire to be a Christlike child, there needs to
be a growing interest in spiritual and
biblical things and a growing comfort and familiarity with spiritual people and
leaders.
v47 Surprising
Now, quite honestly, it’s very unusual for anyone –
especially a kid! – to be like this. And so, don’t be surprised if your being like Jesus is a surprise to others,
like we see in Jesus’ life in verse 47.
47 {And all/Everyone}
{that/who} heard {him/Jesus} {were/was} {astonished/amazed}
at his understanding and {i.e., his…}
answers.
Really, if you kids were to come up to Pastor this morning
and start asking him spiritual questions and talking to him about what you were
reading in your Bible, the reaction from some people might be a happy shock!
Now, obviously Jesus is God and his understanding of
spiritual things would have been indeed amazing. But I’m telling you that it
wouldn’t take much from some of you to amaze the people here at this church. If
you actually were reading your Bible and then came to church and told an adult
about what you read, I think even that would cause some of us to be amazed.
Do you want to amaze
and surprise people in this church? You don’t need to dress funny, and you
don’t need to do weird stuff to your hair, and you don’t need to speak out of
turn. You just need to be growing in your likeness to Jesus Christ.
v48-49 Parental Disagreements
Now, it might surprise you to know that even if you are
growing in your likeness to Jesus Christ, that there still might be times in
which your parents and you don’t see eye-to-eye. This actually happened in
Jesus’ life in verses 48 and 49.
48 {And when they/When
they/When his parents} saw him, they were {amazed/astonished/overwhelmed}:
{and his/His} mother said {unto/to}
him,
{Son/Child}, why {hast
thou/have you} {thus dealt with us/treated us this way/treated us like this}?
{behold, thy/Behold, your, Look, your/Your} father and I have {sought
thee sorrowing/been anxiously looking for you/been looking for your
anxiously/been anxiously searching for you}.
49 {And/But} he {said
unto them/said to them/replied/he asked},
{How is it that ye sought/Why is
it that you were looking for/Why were you looking for/Why were you searching
for} me? {wist ye not/Did you not know/Didn’t you know} {that I/I}
{must be about/had to be in/must be in} my Father’s {business/house}?
And so, Jesus and his parents didn’t agree in this
situation, did they? Mary is kind of angry at Jesus. She was amazed or
astonished or overwhelmed. And her question to him kind of reveals that she
doesn’t quite know what to say – she’s just kind of angry that she’s just
wasted about four days of her life trying to find her son.
Have you ever had a time when your parents didn’t understand
why you did something? Maybe they got angry at you. And probably most of the
time, they should be angry at you. As
children, we make a lot of mistakes and we disobey a lot and we sin quite a
bit. And so, it’s a natural response for a parent to get angry at his child
when he’s disobeying.
But in Jesus’ case, there was no disobedience. This was God
the Son – Jesus – spending time in his Father’s house – in God the Father’s
house. Mary speaks of Joseph as if he was Jesus’ father. And Jesus needs to
clarify that – no – he had been in his real Father’s house the whole time – in
the temple.
And even Jesus’ response doesn’t indicate sin or rebellion
or disobedience. He simply states the fact – you should have known where I would have been – in my Father’s house
doing my Father’s business.
And again, if you are in the situation where you are
personally growing to be more like Jesus Christ but your parents aren’t, this
kind of misunderstanding even to the
point of disagreement is likely to happen in your family.
v50-51 Obedience to Parents
And so, when you and your parents disagree, you have two
choices. You can choose to disobey them, thinking that they don’t know what’s
best in your situation. But that’s not what Jesus did.
Rather, in verses 50 and 51 we see Jesus – even though he’s
God and even though he’s totally right – obeying
and submitting to his earthly and imperfect parents who don’t quite
understand him.
50 {And they understood
not/But they did not understand/Yet his parents did not understand} {the
saying which he spake/the statement which he had made/the remark he made/what
he was saying} {unto/to} them.
51 {And he went down with
them, and came to Nazareth,/Then he went down to Nazareth with them} and {was
subject/he continued in subjection/was obedient} {unto/to} them:
{but/and} his mother {kept/treasured}
all these {sayings/things} in her heart.
Jesus’s parents did not understand him. And yet, he obeyed
them. Don’t be tempted to think that you should obey your parents only when
they completely understand everything about the situation. No – obey your
parents even when they might be confused and ignorant about the situation. This
is what Jesus did and it’s what you should do as well.
And did you catch that Jesus’ mother even took notice of
this event? Even though she didn’t quite understand what was going on, she
still remembered these things in her heart. And she probably ended up telling
these stories to the writer of this book – the Gospel of Luke. Luke probably
heard these stories directly from Jesus’ mother Mary.
And so, if you want to be growing to be more like Jesus
Christ, obey your parents even when they
don’t perfectly understand you.
v52 Continued Growth
So, if you do these things and are growing in your likeness
to Jesus Christ:
- You are depending on God for growth in every
area
- Your family is involved in biblical religion –
or at the very least, you are
- You might experience miscommunication with your
natural family and might have different priorities and place different values on
spiritual things than your family would and that possibly leads to some
inconvenience for your family
- And yet you are even growing in your closeness
and familiarity with spiritual leaders and spiritual teachings
- You’re maybe surprising others because of your
growing to be more like Jesus
- You might have disagreements with your parents
and yet…
- You are committed to obeying them
Well, if some or all of these things are happening in your
life, then you will very likely experience what Jesus himself experienced as he
moved on from this situation in his life that we’ve been studying today – and
you will experience continued growth.
52 ¶ And Jesus {increased/kept
increasing/grew} in wisdom and {stature/in stature}, and in favour
with God and {man/men/with people}.
So, Jesus obeyed his mistaken sinful earthly parents. And catch
this – he was not harmed by doing that.
Instead, he grew in every area. He grew mentally – in
wisdom. He grew physically – in stature.
And then supernaturally, he grew spiritually – he grew in favor
with God. And he grew socially – he grew in favor with man.
Now, the last thing I want to remind us is that there’s only
one way for you to grow in favor with God. There’s only one way to get God’s
favor – to get him to bless your life. And that is to trust in the one whom
we’ve been studying – to place your full faith and trust in Jesus Christ – the
only perfect child and the only sinless man who has ever lived.
And he perfectly died for your sins so that if you believe
in him, he will save you from your sin and from an eternity separated from God
the Father.
It is impossible for you to grow in favor with God unless
you humbly confess your sin and trust in God’s Son, Jesus Christ, to forgive
you all your sin.
If you are trusting in Jesus right now, God will see to it
that you grow to be more like him. And if you don’t trust Jesus right now, he
is ready to save you from your empty meaningless life and from your dangerous
and harmful sin.
So, I urge you to trust in Jesus right now. Why wait? What
could you possibly be waiting for?
And if you have trusted Jesus – by God’s grace he will grow you to be more like the perfect child
– to be more like Jesus Christ your Savior and example.
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